tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6599730022386841057.post5267382362669219984..comments2024-01-03T08:32:17.057-05:00Comments on the remsnyders: When Grief is Unreal. Seth and Janethttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01534435028118848508noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6599730022386841057.post-85378603544305868372014-05-22T05:19:55.818-04:002014-05-22T05:19:55.818-04:00Also, remember the good times we had with him and ...Also, remember the good times we had with him and eachother! He gave us so much and provided for us things that others would kill for to have. He was a great man, and I am sure him and Bobby would want to see us happy and smiling. Celebrate the time you had with Bobby and celebrate the times we shared and the memories we made with dad. Be grateful that we are still here on this earth. Also, know that God's design is perfect and made in His image. Trust that even though they are not here that there is still a way to move on. Better yet, a better way to move on and live our lives to the fullest! Ever day is a gift, and that is why it is called the present. Have faith that the darkness will eventually disappear and brighter days are ahead. I miss you Janet and I love you.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02549895668537331320noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6599730022386841057.post-87809658417615907942014-05-22T04:31:02.983-04:002014-05-22T04:31:02.983-04:00Wow. Janet, I am really dissappointed to read this...Wow. Janet, I am really dissappointed to read this. I know it is mind boggling and confusing as to why God has chosen this time for so much pain, and I say you are strong enough to handle ALL of this. Try looking at the positive things; that when dad died, he went in peace. That you still have a wonderful family that loves you; with a loving husband and 2 beautiful girls God has blessed you with. That they are both in heaven right now, no longer in any pain. That even though these deaths have happened so close to one another you can find ways to smile and be happy at what is STILL here. Look at my life, its really crappy, I have it waaay worse than you. But I have not let this bring me down and make me unhappy. I have let this blazing fire in my heart strengthen me to do and be someone I NEVER thought I could be. God's plan is not meant for us to understand, it is meant to be believed in to be trusted upon, and to know that He did this for a reason that we may not now or ever see. I beg you to reach out to your family and friends and speak with us about this. We are all going through a hard time and I still have not gotten over what has happened either, but I believe that time will heal these wounds. I just hope that when we look back at these days we see them as times to mourn and be sad of our loses, but also see it as a time for family to come together and rejoice with those who are here and being thankful that our loved ones lost are in a better place. This post is not meant to bring you down, Janet. This post was meant to lift you up, and maybe to show you that as tough and as hard as life maybe be, those that are still here are all a gift from God. Cherish what you have and live everyday the best that you can, for all of our lives are numbered and there will come a time in everyones life to pass and be brought into heavens gates by the holy and loving blood of Jesus Christ. Let not the negative things from the initial trials and the outcome of all this bring you down. Instead, use it to strengthen you and make you a better person. I love you Janet, and I will be here for you for the rest of your days. I hope to make it out there on fathers day, and I hope to see many loving and familiar faces to comfort me on that day, for this one and all fathers days to come will be different. Just remember - dad and Bobby will be watching over us, smiling down from heaven, when we come together to celebrate our fathers life.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02549895668537331320noreply@blogger.com